Whats going on people. Ya boy X is stressing. My dumb ass sister has once again managed to turn my household into disaray yet AGAIN. She is starting to get under my skin AGAIN...I try to make excuses for her. I try to give her opportunitys to grow as a woman but she just doesnt get it. I swear I think she slow. How much can a person take before you blast they ass to smitherines. I keep my mom and dad off her back so they dont sweat her about shit. I mean she has it good, she don't have to pay rent, pay for food, pay a bill, the bitch don't gotta do nothing. All she has to do is go to school and take care of my nephew. She is so dickmatized by this older dude thats scared to come to our house cause me & my dad are going to ice grill him, but so the fuck what ,how you 27yrs old tryna talk to a 19yr old anyway, but thats a different story. So check this.....
I came home around 11:30 pm...just came from shawn house, my brother like you know ya sister not home yet rite. I go to her room to check and she not in there. I'm like well hopefully she will come walking in a few. I went upstairs talked on the phone and carried on the rest of my phone conversation I was having with this lil shorty and i mean short like 5'2 short lol but anyway. I didnt bother to go downstairs to see if my sister was home because my parents already sat down with her 3 weeks prior about her being out all day with the baby and not calling or letting anybody know if she is okay so. The sole purpose for her really staying with us is for the welfare of my nephew and of course her because she is his mother.
So my mom wakes me up due to over sleeping and almost late for work. I walked downstairs to greet her with a smile only to see her looking shit faceted and annoyed so I ask whats wrong and sure enough the reply was..you know your sister didnt come home last nite. My mouth dropped and I just stood there and listen to my mom go on an on about how she told her this and told her that and we just went thru this....you would think she got the hint after your father chewed her ass out last time for this. The baby bottles are in the frigde. I wonder did he eat. Come to find out she told my dad that she was going to one of her girlfriends house to chill and she would be back, only to find out her girlfriend called the house lookn for her ass. Thats when I got upset. Its not good to lie to my parents, its hell to pay especially when it comes to regaining trust. I have tried to be the mediator and cut her slack and let her adjust to her new enviornment but enough is enough. So today after work I have to prepare myself for this long drawn out conversation. Im going to hate to do this ,but I gotta let her have it 4real this time because you will not give me your ass to kiss. We took you in, clothed you, fed you and gave you money and you cant even follow simple rules....just becasuse she is 19 with a baby doesnt make her grown.
I'm getting annoyed typing this shit right now. What should I do people?, because obviously this girl dosen't believe shit stink....Whos Afraid of the big bad wolf?...because obviously this chick isnt.....!
My dad always told me if you wanna stay out late and be grown and not let anybody know were you at...DONT COME HOME, TAKE YO ASS BACK TO WERE YOU CAME FROM AND I'LL SEE YOU TOMOR. I really hope she gets her act together before its too late.
Until next time.......
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12 comments:
wow... this is a hard one 'cuz a baby is involved. It's not like y'all can just tell her to get on her own and hope for the best. OK I'll shut up now cuz I don't have constructive suggestions. lol.
And u need to replace the "Dusty Boot" sidebar entry with this one. lol.
Man, this is a hard one. It's unfortunate that she has the baby, but you guys might have to just tell her to get on and see what it's like out there on her own. Being 19 with a baby is hard. She'll realize how easy she had it and fast.
Looks like ur parents will have to really start giving her some tough love. Set some solid rules, and if not obeyed then she just have to suffer the consequence's. It seems like she is doing this stuff only because she obviously thinks she can. Once ur parents crack that whip hard enough, she will be on her P's & Q's.
um...this is a hard one. But it's family right? Some people think that you've gotta be right there w/the fam and get them thru stuff. Me, nah, I'd be like, 'yo - do you.' I'd just be there to look after the nephew when I could. But hey, that's me. Good luck X!
Man sistahgurl has it made no rent, no food bill and bulit in babysitter(s). Now what makes you think that she is going to get it right when everything is laid out at her feet for her? Alright Then!
She hasn't got the vision, but no worries without vision the people shall parrish. She is trying to caputure the time she missed while playing young mommy, but she does not realize that she gave that up when she gave that ass up without plan parenthood's help.
Your nephew is blessed to have you and his grandparents your sister is too, but she is burning bridges as she goes along and if she doesn't get it right soon she will be out of that house and struggling to find and maintain her own.
family only goes so far
tell your parents to report her ass to child services and get legal custody of the baby for themselves
"dickmatized" ?? that is priceless !!
its like gay men being "assmatized" ?
"I swear I think she slow." This is hard, bro. Seriously. I had an older sister like this. The only difference between my sister and your sister was that my sister would leave the baby at home for my mom 'nem to take care of and then go off and do her dirt. It use to bug the hell out of me too. If you are grown enough to bring a child into the world the grow all the fuck up was my mentality. Saidly, some people never grow up (case and point, my sister who is now almost fifty)and they don't because parents don't force them to grow up. I know it is hard, because you have a little one to think about, but I say keep the little one and kick sis' ass to the curb! I ain't playing.
Good luck with that! She's sounds hard headed as hell.
I might sound like the mean one and tend to sound a lil ol' skool! Cut the bitch off! She is living in your parents house. There are rules! If she doesn't want to adhere to the rules then you can get out! The baby is welcome to stay (if thats something the household can handle), but you need to bounce! Hit the dirt and keep it moving!
She will find out what life is really about. As long as your parents did what they needed to do towards her growing up, she will make it or find a way! Dumb Ass teens! Your sister and my cousin need to be roommates! Maybe together they can get they lives together!
Damn man. I dunno what to say. I got some relatives who do some messed up things, too. This is the first time i can't make a clear case with an opinion.
Btw, have you checked out my new blog?
I'll move in an abide by the house rules. She has no responsibility. What I would do to have no bills. She has no idea how good she has it!
I feel u..but your nephew shouldnt
be penalized because sis is
tryin to get her swerve on....
fam needs to break her off
a beatdown....this happened in my
house,ma dukes took my sis out
on the sofa,shit was wild...but
sis didnt do that shit no more.
Why females think havin babies
frees them from actin responsible.
its crazy
manchild
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